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My identity

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My identity | Sexuality and Gender

Blog: Can lesbians have long nails? The great debate

ByMorven Loh

A question that has haunted lesbian relationships since the beginning of time… to clip or not to clip? Our nails, that is.

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Am I gay?
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

Am I gay?

ByMorven Loh

We are here to give you some healthy tips on how to understand and explore your sexuality

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Person holding LGBT flag
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

What religion taught me about being queer

BySamuel Kier

In this personal essay, Samuel Kier shares his story of growing up in a Christian household and the effect religion had on his sexuality, faith and self-acceptance

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Blog: How counselling helped me discover my gender identity
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

Blog: How counselling helped me discover my gender identity

ByPhil Hill

We experience our gender in different ways. In this personal article, Fumble blogger Phil Hill shares their story of self-discovery

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Blog: Questioning my sexuality – A queer coming of age story
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

Blog: Questioning my sexuality – A queer coming of age story

ByMorven Loh

Exploring our sexuality can be fun and exciting, but also quite scary and sometimes daunting. This Fumble contributor shares her queer coming-of-age story and the journey she took whilst questioning her sexuality

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Coming out (again) – 5 tips to help you navigate sexuality
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

Coming out (again) – 5 tips to help you navigate sexuality

BySamuel Kier

Having the world constantly assume you’re straight is hard – here are some tips on how to manage a life coming out of the closet

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7 tips for your first queer sexual experience
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

7 tips for your first queer sexual experience

ByMorven Loh

Any first sexual experience can feel uncertain, but especially when queerness is often excluded from sex ed

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Lesbians can’t catch STIs… right?
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

Lesbians can’t catch STIs… right?

ByMorven Loh

Wrong! Lesbians can most definitely catch STIs, so it’s important we stay clued up.

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What does it mean to be non-binary?
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

What does it mean to be non-binary?

ByMorven Loh

As we look ahead to International Trans Day of Awareness 2018, Morven Loh asks: what does it mean to be Non-Binary?

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Blog: Growing up asexual
My identity | Sexuality and Gender

Blog: Growing up asexual

ByKate Taylor

Kate Taylor on the loneliness of discovering her asexuality

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